The woman puts in the concept "love" care of the person, readiness to penetrate into his efforts, desire to constantly be aware of its affairs, not to stint kind words, courtesies, compliments, to show tenderness. Without receiving it from darling, she sometimes reproaches him. The man confused and angry angrily makes a helpless gesture: well, then he does not understand at all that else it is necessary to these women! As a result – the conflict, mutual offense. The girl asks a question: how to teach the man it is correct to love.
Instruction
1. Understand and remember very simple thing: other man, literally in everything. It is senseless to wait that he will think and arrive as the woman. It is unreal. Men in the acts are guided absolutely by other logic, and they have other scale of values. What is important for the girl can seem to the young man an insignificant trifle and vice versa.
2. Understand also that any man is not able to read others mind. And he simply does not understand hints (even the most obvious, clear, from the point of view of the woman). Therefore if you want compliments, gentle words, - tell him about it directly! Throw out a thought from the head: "If loved really – itself would guess". Only it is honest: and you often guess what the man thinks of what he would like?
3. Do not forget at the same time that vast majority of men hate empty, empty chatter. And they refer infinite repetitions of the same to the same chatter, even assurances of love. Here, by the way, one more serious mistake of the woman: to put an equal-sign between concepts: "Lack of words about love" and "Lack of love, per se". Understand: if the man does not say from morning to the night as ardently he loves you, it does not mean at all that he does not love you!
4. If you want to achieve from the man of bigger tenderness, attention, cares – act softly, with truly women's art. Any reproaches, scenes, scandals. Unostentatiously, tactfully you bring it to a thought: "Well, time it is so important for it why not to overcome itself? Women love such small concessions". Do not forget to praise sincerely the man, showing as his compliments, courtesies are pleasant to you.
5. Young people, unlike girls, think rationally, to them the logic of acts is very important. Therefore you can achieve the, having explained what will only do it good if it becomes a little softer, more emotionally, more attentively to people (and to you including, of course). For example, it will be easier for it to conduct business negotiations, to attract new clients. Such argument for certain will make due action.