Any relations are not insured from disorder. And most often partings happen at the initiative of one of the parties. And the second person continues to love and suffer. Unfortunately, as affected party the woman quite often acts. And to it it is much more difficult to release former, than to men to forget the love.
Instruction
1. Do not try to move to pity the man with the tears or hysterics. If he decided to leave, then will make it anyway. Try even in a difficult situation not to lose self-respect. Remember that it is not the last feelings in your life. Men come and leave, it is necessary to think first of all of himself.
2. Be not afraid to remain alone. Think that this situation will bring you only pluses. You at last again will become free, will not depend on anybody. You should not wait in the evenings for it a call, to remake plans, to tolerate his indifference and to cry at the nights in a pillow. Look for in all positive sides.
3. You will have more free time, try to spend it with advantage. Be engaged in self-education, get new job, begin to attend courses or get to yourself a hobby. First, you will be able to be engaged in self-improvement, and secondly, you will have no time for experiences.
4. Do not fight for the lost happiness. As it is impossible to stick together the broken vase, so it is impossible and to restore the relations which ended. Even if the man will return to you, it will not bring joy. You will always expect from him treachery, and as a result will spoil nervous system to both yourself, and him.
5. Try to accept changes which happened in your life. You need to learn to live in a new way. But, who knows, perhaps, this new will be pleasant to you much more after a while, than what was earlier.
6. If fall in love with yourself, then begin to care for yourself and to cherish. Begin to do at last what is pleasant to you. Visit clubs and restaurants, you go to massage and to a sauna, sign up for courses of extreme driving. Try to indulge yourself daily. So you will much more simply endure this difficult period in life.
7. Understand the man. Its feelings passed, he cannot be more with you. And if he is really dear to you, release him. Do not prevent it to be happy even if and without you. Forgive him for everything that he made, only this way you will be able to get rid he thoughts of it.