To take leaving of darling to not only the woman, but also the man hard. Quite often happens so that the young man is left by the girlfriend because her feelings died away or there was a new hobby, but feelings of the man remained the same – and he thinks whether it is impossible to return the relations to the former course. If you feel that not all is lost, can try to return the girl and to renew her love.
Instruction
1. That the girl began to respect you again, stop to show her that you are nervous and worry. She has to see in you the quiet, judicious and self-assured man again.
2. You do not hurry – if from the moment of parting there passed a little time, wait at least week, let's the girl collect the thoughts and to understand what she wants. Perhaps, having had a rest from you and having weighed a situation coolly, the girl will understand that she wants to renew your relations.
3. Besides, the pause in communication will allow you to think of what forced the girl out from you and that in you does not suit it alone.
4. Treat yourself crucially – understand in what your shortcomings and as to correct them. Your task is to change itself, to get rid of shortcomings, to change the lifestyle and type of behavior, to get rid of those lines which do not suit the girl in joint life with you.
5. Only work on itself will help you to return her love. Remember what you were at the time of your acquaintance and the beginning of the relations. Analyze that changed and that left, and try to return those feelings and images which you caused at the girl.
6. Try to return it such feeling as though you again just got acquainted. Be romantic, affable, you give it gifts and flowers, do surprises, you reduce it to the park or at cinema. Remind of joint romantic events and trips.
7. If you understood what is not pleasant to the girl how you cope with household problems – try to solve them quickly. When she returns – the clean house, the serviceable equipment and the pleasant atmosphere has to meet her.
8. Your cheerfulness and friendliness will be transferred to the girl and she will feel again that she pulls it to you. The girl has to feel changes in you – let it know that you became the person, even more attractive, than that guy with whom she once fell in love.