The family relations sometimes are at a boiling point - everything falls, the husband leaves. There passes time, and you understand that your gap was a mistake. If you did not make anything fatal, then the husband will return to you. The most important in such situation is not to get excited and soberly to consider everything.
Instruction
1. After parting the search of guilty persons, as a rule, begins. Let's not conceal a sin, but in such situations of the woman expose themselves innocent lambs and blame men for all problems. Search of guilty persons will not resolve a problem but only will aggravate it. Being alone with itself, mentally answer the main issue: why you want to return this person? If you after all do not see in it any sense, then it is worth putting the fat end to the relations until the situation turned into full absurdity.
2. The Osnovny and most effective way - constructive dialogue. Women are subject to emotions, and men are more rational in the judgments. Try not to roll up hysterics, and to operate with arguments. Having found proper words, in a quiet situation try to inform of them the man and together try to find the right decision. Make each other concessions. The compromise is the integral attribute of any relations.
3. Look after yourself. Remember what you were at your first meeting. Active, cheerful, lovely, beautiful, carefree. Return yourself. Find for yourself more time: gym, pool, spa, sunbed, cosmetologist. You love and respect yourself.
4. It is fine that you have good girlfriends ready any minute to come to the rescue of you. However you should not forget that you live life, and each situation is individual therefore you should not listen to each council of the girlfriends. Take them into consideration, but do not use their ready scenarios - you have the life.
5. Even after a gap do not try to cause jealousy in the partner. Most likely feelings to you in it are still alive, and he will regard this fact as treachery.
6. Do not try to pursue it. Each person has to have a personal space. Be not importunate and annoying. Respect both yourself, and him. Let time to it think, leave alone with yourself, but do not tighten. Occasionally you call him, remind of yourself, be interested in his life, health that it saw that it is not indifferent for you.