Sometimes the best friend becomes too annoying. He comes to your house as own, distributes uninvited councils, affords tactless remarks. When it is impossible to constrain discontent more, it is necessary to look for ways to suspend close relations with it.
1. Passing to radical actions, think as far as you are dependent on the relations with this person. If earlier you did not represent without it either everyday life, or holidays, properly weigh all pros and cons. Perhaps, you it is simple not in the spirit of, and tomorrow the idea to dismiss the friend will seem to you not too successful?
2. If the loneliness does not frighten you, first of all take care of being out of constant reach of the gad-fly. It is not obligatory directly to demand to leave you alone. However on night calls quite chat with a request you can't react. Hang up the words "forgive, I already sleep".
3. Correct a way of life, refuse a habit always to help all. Your annoying friend knows about your non-failure operation and impudently uses it. Do not lend him money, refer to financial crisis. Be polite, but are firm.
4. Be engaged in an important issue, like arrangement of giving or purchase of the car. Get, at last, a dog. And unless you were not going to make repair even last summer? Now your employment will not be imaginary, and you with clear conscience will be able to refer to it when the friend invites you to the next senseless junket in the nearby cafe.
5. If roundabout maneuvers do not help, honestly tell that they were tired of communication, you want to have a rest a little. As a last resort replace the phone number, do not react to remarks in icq, just ignore desire again to involve you in the unnecessary relations. Without receiving response, the friend will gradually leave you alone.
6. Remember that you have the right to refuse communication to anyone, it not crime. It is not obligatory to be rude at all, but people around should remember that you build the life as to you conveniently and you will not allow to use yourself. Do not let in the reality of shady characters because of unwillingness to pass for the stale person, then among your friends there will be no of what it is worth getting rid hastily.