As a rule, the first step in the relations is taken by the man: he makes a declaration of love and begins to look after, he spends forces and money for the organization of appointments, etc. But sometimes the girl herself shows an initiative. If the courageous girl made a declaration of love to you, but does not cause in you mutual feelings, you have to tell ""no"" as it is possible more politely not to wound her self-esteem.
Instruction
1. If the girl is so far poorly familiar to you, in response to recognition tell that you appreciate her feelings. Emphasize that its good attitude to you is expensive to you that she is really beautiful and attractive. Sincerely and without falseness tell how you regret that you cannot be together with it. Explain the reason: you have more to liking the friendly relations with it as it is necessary to work together; you have a girlfriend; you have with the girl too different characters; something else prevents you to begin the romantic relations. In conclusion once again praise her appearance. The refusal has to be polite.
2. If the girl is persistent and continues to exasperate you, try to avoid her society and the companies in which she is. As a last resort try not to remain with her alone. Continue to communicate with her exactly, in friendly tone as though the conversation was not.
3. If you want to break off the relations with the girl whom you meet, take the first advice. Invite her to an appointment, praise appearance (a formulation "you perfectly look today" it is unacceptable. Emphasize constancy of its beauty). Then express disappointment from impossibility to continue the relations and explain the reason. At the end once again give a compliment. If she responds to your words quietly, it is better to finish a meeting at once: to leave cinema or theater, to take her home and some time to avoid each other. If the girl strongly is upset, will begin to cry, will begin a hysterics, silently listen to her, whenever possible calm. Finish a meeting, take it home and avoid meetings some time.