History of the relations of two people is always a unique plot even if they already not together. At someone the word "former" is associated only with a negative, someone, on the contrary, turns the ex-beloved into the best friend. But many fluctuate, to congratulate being with a holiday or not.
Instruction
1. It is necessary to make a start from the internal feeling, development of the scenario of the relations after the love ended, can be unexpected. Sort out yourself – that you test to this person. Hostility, sympathy or more deep feeling? Perhaps, the general child or need to see at work obliges to maintain the relations you.
2. If people are constantly crossed in the companies, then a congratulation former it seems something obligatory. For example, it is difficult not to support collective and not to congratulate ex-darling or darling if he / she is your chief. And it is difficult to ignore the subordinate who in combination is your former.
3. If you feel antipathy to the ex-love, nobody has the right to dictate to you as with it to behave. In the absence of a common ground, you can safely forget about his / her birthday and all minor holidays.
4. The woman who from the relations had child can congratulate time in a year being with a holiday. It is expedient to maintain the kind relations for the sake of the general fumes. At the same time it is worth being guided on the today's halves if they are. You should not irritate the new passion of the ex-husband or the spouse of the ex-wife, the name in an occasion or once again without.
5. Another matter if you want to renew the relations, feeling that the love did not die. In that case it is necessary to understand and whether an object of your feelings wants it. If he found new love and is happy in the relations, you should not rastravlivat the wounds, once again exchanging calls or communicating in social networks. And here if being/being did not manage to get a half yet, it is possible to try the luck. The unostentatious congratulation will be the best reason for a meeting.
6. How the congratulation of former is carried out? If it is the duty caused by corporate ethics or need to hold the person for the sake of the general child, it is possible to be limited to a sms or a card on "Schoolmates". If to congratulate being – only a reason for communication continuation, it is worth making it personally.
7. Of course, without invitation to come to birthday it is not necessary. But it is possible to call and estimate the situation. It is the simplest to get on a celebration which responsible is former/former, having come with someone from mutual friends.
8. Quite often happens so that people, having left, do not find it necessary to spoil relationship, and continue to be on friendly terms, keeping sympathy to each other. In that case there will be no questions how to congratulate being with a holiday.