Friends take the important place in life of almost each person. It is considered that the their is more, the better. However, sometimes it is necessary to stop the friendly relations because they begin to bring discomfort.
Instruction
1. At first well think whether really you want to stop friendship with this person. Perhaps, the reasons for which you decided to make it can quite be eliminated if frankly to talk? Then also awkwardness in the relations will disappear, and you will be able to keep the friend. But if you came to a conclusion that you are sure of the decision, act most tactfully.
2. Minimize all contacts. You do not call and do not write. From its party answer calls and messages most briefly and in essence. On offers "it is simple to communicate" refuse. You can always refer to load with work.
3. If you are connected by a work platitude, politely reject all offers: to have a bite, bring together for work, etc. Also behave and in case you, for example, are engaged in one gym, you attend the same actions.
4. Do not show any interest on social networks. Often invitations in any games, applications or groups are distributed to everything who is in the list of friends. However the recipient can regard it as the sign to resumption of the friendly relations. Therefore if you did not begin to delete this person from the list of friends not to offend, do not forget to bypass it similar invitations.
5. Answer its requests with lateness. It is one of the strongest signals of the friendship termination. Perhaps, it will finally let know to already former friend that your relations are stopped.
6. Of course, you can not use such methods, and honestly tell that your friendship terminated, having specified the important, in your opinion, reasons for this purpose. But think, you would like to appear on the place of this person? Such way is acceptable only in one case – your friend betrayed you and you precisely know about it. And if the simple divergence of interests takes place, you should not offend the person. Besides, all people change, develop, and, perhaps, after a while you will be able to resume friendship.