Each person needs to be able to strike up acquaintances, it will help not only with private life, but also with business where the skill to communicate is considered one of the biggest advantages. If you are not able to strike up acquaintances, it it does not matter. Just you for the present have no experience, and experience will surely come together with practice.
1. The most important – you do not stay at home and do not turn sour alone, there are so much around places where it is possible will get acquainted with interesting people – Take theaters, cinema, exhibitions, concerts, the museums, cafe, public holidays, etc. to yourself for the rule to spend time among people, and you will understand soon that it became much easier for you to strike up acquaintances.
2. Until you became the specialist in acquaintances yet, are published more often with the friend or the girlfriend who has no problems with communication. First, through it it will be easier for you to get acquainted with new people, and secondly, you will look at it and to adopt "skill secrets".
3. Learn to smile, and it is better to do it more than once or two in day, and it is constant. If the habit begins to smile your second nature, you will make an impression of the open and friendly person, and people will seek to strike up acquaintance with you.
4. At communication direct the attention to the interlocutor, but do not think of whether correctly you speak and whether you do. Forget about your fears and complexes. Begin to communicate with strangers from insignificant and general phrases, but gradually expand their range. If you do small short steps gradually, then soon you absolutely will cease to be afraid to strike up acquaintances.
5. An important element are compliments. Acquaintance to you will leave the most pleasant impressions at the person if you show to it something pleasant. At the same time try to tell about what really is pleasant to you, but do not squeeze out from yourself a compliment.
6. Be not afraid to show an initiative in communication with new acquaintances. Suggest them to descend to walk, call at cinema or on the nature. Act more safely, and you will easily strike up any acquaintances soon.