Even the strongest relations at a given time undergo testing. Usually such check is your relation to each other problems. What if your girl had problems? Let for you these problems are insignificant, but for her is an accident (quarrels with friends or parents, a stress, tension at work). How to support her?
It is required to you
- - Book ""Beauty psychology: training of appeal to girls"", A.V. Dobrolyubova, 2008;
- - Services of the hairdresser;
- - Tickets in cinema/theatre.
Instruction
1. The most important quality – it is attentive to listen to ability. When at the girl of a problem, everything that is required to it - it is the good interlocutor, to be exact that person who can listen to her. Do not interrupt and do not express the negative opinion (even if it actually is). If it seems to you that the problem is inflated from a trifle, do not give a sign. The fact that the trifle for you, for it can be considerable and important. Try to put yourself on its place.
2. Try to develop through joint efforts the plan of the subsequent actions. It is quite possible that the girl did not manage to think of how to her to arrive in this situation. And you will just help it to understand. The main objective at this stage is not to give it to be obsessed with a problem which arose. It is necessary to explain that it is useless to sit and to think constantly of a problem, it is necessary to make some attempts for its permission.
3. Distract from negative thoughts. To stay at home and be depressed – not the best option? It is better to descend together somewhere, to vanish, meet friends, to chat about something good.
4. Knowing as girls love shopping and change of image, hairstyles and dresses, organize to the girl a celebration! You walk on shops, beauty shops. It will inspire her and will distract from vital disorders. It is also possible to arrange houses for himself a party at which it is possible to hold a fashion show! The updated clothes, image, a hairstyle and other not only will please your girl, but also will become the first stage at the beginning of new life in which there is no place to problems!