Traditionally it is considered that on the way to the relations the man has to take the first step. The girl needs only to sit and wait when pay attention to her, and then to show favor or to reject the unlucky admirer. But more often it happens so that girls show an initiative independently. The main thing at the same time is to achieve that the young man was sincerely convinced that the first step was taken by him.
Instruction
1. One of the most effective ways to draw attention to itself is little flirtation. However it is necessary to flirt very thinly and unostentatiously not to look ridiculous and not to push away the pleasant man. It is important to use nonverbal signals: turn of the case towards an object of the sympathy though it is possible to turn only socks of shoes. "Otzerkalivaniye" of gestures is considered one of the most effective ways of drawing attention. Communicating with the young man, it is necessary to repeat his gestures: ducking, movement of hands, etc. Only it is not necessary to do it too obviously not to look comical.
2. With guarantee to cause sympathy from the man, it is necessary to try to make friends with him. It is the best of all to construct friendship on the basis of common interests, it is possible to walk together with dogs, to visit sports section, etc. If there are no points of intersection initially, it is necessary to begin to be interested in on what the young man is keen. About its interests it is possible to learn both from mutual friends, and from him, and then, on their basis, to try to construct the friendly relations. Such friendship quite often passes into more gentle relations, it is pleasant to most of men when the girl sincerely is interested in their hobbies.
3. Flatters many men when they look strong and powerful in the opinion of the girl, and it can be exploited too. It is possible to ask the young man to help to inform of a heavy bag, to open the jammed lock or to repair something. At the same time the girl should letting know to the man that she addressed him as she considers it the strongest, attentive, clever and resourceful. Most likely, he will estimate that that could estimate it. One more effective way to draw attention of the young man is to laugh sincerely at his jokes even if they are not so ridiculous. Usually it is pleasant to men when someone can appreciate sense of humour inherent in them. It is clear, that on one laughter of the relation will not manage to be constructed, but is only the first step.
4. There is also one more way to make a step towads to an object of the sympathy, but he is very risky and absolutely unpredictable. It is possible just to make an avowal of sentiments directly. Reaction will depend on the relation of the young man: if the girl is pleasant to it, then he will positively apprehend her recognition. If there is a danger to be rejected, it is only possible to hint the man at the feelings though it is necessary to recognize that guys not always understand hints. However if the girl to him is nice, the young man can react quite adequately. If she is uninteresting to it, he will turn to a hint a deaf ear. The girl will need only to reconcile to a situation and to make told light.
5. To the young man in a similar situation it is, seemingly, much simpler: he can show an initiative openly and directly especially as the standard representations in every possible way encourage it. However there is a certain problem: if the young man is really in love, he becomes shy and indecisive. Nevertheless, if he really wants to achieve a goal, it is better to reject the complexes and to tell itself that in life there is nothing impossible. However, and to you it is not necessary to become too impudent and free, perhaps, too. Of course, it is pleasant to some girls, but can push away many.
6. You should not wait that the girl will reciprocate at once. For a start it is necessary just to draw its attention. In a conversation with it it is necessary to treat many things with humour. It is good if it turns out to lighten the girl the mood. The main thing is not to go too far that jokes did not begin to irritate her. You should not be afraid to pay compliments, it is pleasant to most of girls, only they have to be always appropriate. For example, if the girl chubby, you do not admire her figure – she can apprehend it as irony and to take offense. Always it is necessary to look at the pleasant girl with love and admiration. She has to understand everything and, at least, will be flattered. It is necessary to try to be more romantic: to present flowers (at least one rosette), to invite in theater or at cinema, to organize a romantic dinner. In today's life not much romanticism, meanwhile, many girls dream of it.
7. Always it is necessary to try to help the girl: to transfer weights, to repair something, after all, to remove from a tree of her kitten. Many girls want to see nearby the strong man for whom it is possible to feel absolutely safe. There is, however, also other type of girls. They so strongly expressed a maternal instinct that they want to care constantly and for the young man. Such girl it is better to address for council that she felt necessary and significant as often as possible. Only it is not necessary to complain constantly of life, it will hardly be pleasant to someone.
8. You should not despond if not everything turns out at once. Really strong and serious relations are not entered for several days.