At emergence of feeling of love the world around the person begins to be painted absolutely in other flowers. Quite habitual things and the phenomena become festive, bright, solar. However in certain cases the dependence on other person leads to sufferings and tortures therefore it is necessary as soon as possible to try to cool the feelings.
Lay feelings aside
Begin with love for yourself. Forget about feelings to someone else and present for a while that on light there is nobody better, than you are. It is enough to approach a mirror, to look in it and you will see the beautiful and independent girl having the mass of merits which still early to think of love feelings. Try to think of it as often as possible and reconsider the ideals concerning other people.
Try to create the diary and to state in it the most intimate thoughts. For a start it is possible to splash out all the anger and grief, having in detail painted that torments you. As soon as you release from yourself all superfluous, at heart it will become easier at once.
Stop to see the guy if you feel that you began to have to him serious feelings. It is better to overcome for a while itself and to stay alone, than further to suffer from the love disturbing you. Also avoid those places where the guy is most often. As a last resort it is possible even to change the place of residence or works. Think what is not pleasant to you in the guy. Write down all its shortcomings on paper. Remember that ideal people are not. In it surely there will be what will force you to reconsider the opinions and to cool the flaring feelings. Live full zhiznyyustarightes not to remain alone. Communicate with your friends and relatives more. It is possible to move to time to the person close to you that near you somebody constantly was. It will help you to behave and not to think of love. Get as much as possible positive emotions from life, without focusing attention on your feelings to the guy. You walk on shops and update clothes, you descend on massage, visit beauty shop or watch the new movie. Try to fulfill all the wishes and small whims independently, be not financially dependent on the guy at all. Make more saturated your daily schedule. If you have many cases and duties, you will spend less time for undesirable thoughts. Begin to build career, whenever possible register in sports section, get to yourself a hobby. Perhaps, you fell in love not with that person? Think what in him does not suit you why you do not want to build with it the relations. As soon as you find out all reasons, it will be simpler to you not to make such mistakes in the future. Try to find such person with whom you will be able to construct true love without any barriers.