The final of the relations never does without emotions. If the ended affair was failed, you will feel sense of relief. But if you did not plan to leave the man, and he showed an initiative and left, you for certain feel desire to revenge and teach a good lesson him.
Instruction
1. Calm down and consider a situation. Try to understand whether really you want to teach a good lesson your lover or just you are at the moment in power of emotions. Present that you already made it. Whether you feel joy and satisfaction? If you have doubts in rationality of own actions, postpone plans to sweep on the future: quite perhaps, after a while you will not want even to think of this person any more. Analyze as well degree personally of your fault in all event. If the man used you, having hidden the civil status, your indignation can be understood. But if you purposefully created the affair with the married man or are married, try to understand for a start yourself and the acts.
2. Plan the actions. Provide all potential results of "revenge". Try to choose such option at which nobody will suffer especially small children. For example, if you tell the spouse of the lover all truth, she will suffer in this situation more likely, but not the "hero of the novel".
3. Play on weaknesses of your lover as you have to know him well. For example, if he differed in economy, provoke him to serious expenditure. The property, certainly, should not reach blackmail and infliction of harm. The cunning and accurate planning will help you to devastate a purse former much more gracefully.
4. You will spoil reputation of the man. The intimate photos distributed to colleagues, the questionnaire on his name created on a dating site, fictitious calls from a venereologic clinic: at the good level of imagination of options can be much. However at the same time once again think whether all this is worthy you.
5. Force the former lover to regret that he lost you. Change style, buy many beautiful things, make a professional photoshoot and post a photo in social networks. Bring the new man, interesting hobbies, go to travel. At a casual meeting the former lover for certain will have feeling of a regret that you not together. And you, in turn, can enjoy new life and even to forget about recent plans to teach a good lesson the lover.