Pregnancy not always is planned, in some families of the man categorically against the child's birth. But if you after all are going to become a mother, you are simply obliged to report about it to the spouse.
When to tell the husband about pregnancy
If you became pregnant from the spouse who will not be ready to the birth of the kid, most likely, to you very difficult to decide to tell it about it. You will constantly wind yourself thoughts of how it will react to such stunning news whether will decide to ask you about abortion, whether will throw. However, of what you thought, it is necessary to give important information to the husband after all as soon as possible. The fact is that he will have more time to reconcile to the forthcoming paternity. If you decide to conceal for some reason the situation some time, your beloved will consider your behavior dishonest and, perhaps, will strongly become angry.
How to tell the spouse about the pregnancy
To tell the husband about pregnancy, it is the best of all to refuse messages or phone calls. Such important information after all needs to be discussed, looking in eyes to the interlocutor.
Choose suitable time and the place for a meeting. Remember that during such serious conversation nobody has to prevent you. The conversation can be begun remotely, for example, with a question of that, your spouse would not like to get children. Try to find powerful arguments of the fact that you are ready to emergence of posterity. Most likely, both of you already adult and independent people, perhaps, at you are already own or rental housing, the car and some monetary savings. If your beloved agrees that it is time to think of the child, can safely say to him what to think already late, and here it is a high time to begin preparation for childbirth just. If your spouse begins to look for the reasons for which you cannot make up the mind to such serious step now, discuss with it ways of their permission. Try to convince of the return and tell about the pregnancy. The loving man, even if he does not want children yet, will apprehend such news adequately and will never begin to ask you about abortion. But if it after all happens, you have to understand that everything depends only on your own desire. You can tell the husband that you will be able to bring up the kid even if the spouse will decide to leave you. Such statement can cause in it shame for the cowardice. Some girls lack courage to pronounce aloud words about pregnancy. In that case you can just show to the beloved positive test for pregnancy, let further itself decides that to it to make.