Did you leave the darling only recently, and now it seems to you that your life lost any meaning? After parting it is important to know what you want actually - to move further and to create the new relations, or to return this man and to try to adjust old.
Instruction
1. If you decide to return back everything, you will need to put a lot of effort in order that your relations became happy again. Neither you, nor he changed. For this reason you will need to work hard over the relations. If you really understand that you want to be only with this man and wish to connect the future with him, then there are several recommendations which will help you to set thinking at least it over correctness of its decision.
2. There is no best way to attach to themselves the man as it is simple to release it. You also should make it. The stronger he will feel the freedom, the less to him will be wanted there. Therefore weaken "lead", and better at all remove it.
3. In order that your plan for return of the man back was effective and worked, you need to stock up with tranquility. Therefore if throws you from one extreme into another, now you want to nestle on it, and then in a second are already angry and do not understand "as he could act this way", it can spoil everything only. Try to get it together, to cease to become hysterical and begin to control the emotions.
4. All men at heart the hunters and owners. For this reason to return it, it is necessary to cause in it jealousy. Therefore put on the best dress, do a make-up, a hair and go to have a good time with girlfriends. You should not forget to post the photos from these actions. Of course, it can not show the reaction, but he will surely test a jealousy prick.
5. It is worth moving ahead to reconciliation very slowly. You do not want to frighten off it. Therefore you should not hurry. Count each step, each action. It is not necessary to call him constantly. It is the best of all to write periodically him unostentatious messages, for example, in social networks. It is not necessary to send him a heap of smilies which only all will spoil, do not fill up its photo and record with the comments. All this will only play against you.
6. It is not necessary to sleep with him. Everything is good in its season. And here it is also not necessary to hurry. Actually, it is not best option to return back the man. Everything can turn back against you. He will understand that he has over you the power, and you belong to him completely: both body, and soul.
7. All know expression "time heals". And for this reason it is so important to go for rapprochement slowly. If you right after parting attack on it, and will do everything to reconcile, all this will only spoil also chances to return it will be even less. Making small steps to reconciliation, there will be time as yours, and his offense and rage will gradually evaporate. And then it will be much easier for both of you to come to a conclusion that you made a mistake and to try still time.