Beginning to have the feelings passing for a side of usual sympathy in relation to the person there is a wish to understand the relations and to understand whether the love is mutual. It is so important, sometimes the ardent love in actual fact appears only passion, and even just pretense.
Learn to distinguish love from love. At love the partner is allocated with various advantages, even nonexistent, and idealized. However love is a short-term passing feeling which lasts no more than three years. Therefore the peak of partings falls on this period. Love, unlike love, - long-term and more stable feeling. Good understanding and knowledge of the partner and also its acceptance as persons with shortcomings and advantages forms a basis for it. The true love, contrary to common opinion, is not blind: it is possible only at profound knowledge of the person. If initially the person was presented to us not by it what he is in fact, inevitably there will be a disappointment. It is necessary to distinguish love and from passion which can be as a love component, and to be shown independently. At passion there is an impetuous sexual inclination which is the leading part of all interactions of couple. The passion eclipses reason, does not submit to social norms and forces to make reckless daredevil acts. It is the certain madness covering soul of the person. This phenomenon is also short-term. It will begin to die away sooner or later. And then the relations constructed on passion become impossible, people leave, losing mutual interest. The love has community of vital views, priorities, interests and installations in the basis. It arises when it is interesting to partners to be near. Therefore one of strong indications of love is desire to spend together much time. At the same time the speech does not go only about noisy parties, visits of clubs and similar actions, and it is more about the moments when it is pleasant to people to discuss various affairs, it is simple to talk with each other. The loving people take about each other continuous care, show an affection, try to facilitate life to darling. That whose love genuinely, the efforts will not parade or reproach with them. One more characteristic sign that you are loved is constant desire of the partner to touch you. Here it is about the simple corporal contact telling darling heat of the body, heart. Light touch - a physical equivalent of the words "I love you". The loving people are interested in life of the beloved. It is interesting to them how took place them put that pleased or upset the second half. It is also possible to carry to indicators of trust and love desire of the person to share with another the experiences.