Now by psychological science it is established: distinctions meanwhile as think, feel and behave also women, after all is. And to understand the man it is insufficiently simple to seek for understanding – the view of its actions and acts "from the female bell tower" can be incorrect. What male features need to be considered to understand men's psychology?
Instruction
1. One of the main differences is that "men's psychology" (in that sense in which understand it girls) at the man, one may say, and absolutely not. That is issues of relationship between people, feelings, emotions, etc. I concern men much less. The women – "feeling", men – "acting". Therefore if the man wants to kiss you – do not ask him about what he feels now. He did not think of it. He wanted to kiss – he made.
2. Certainly, it is much more difficult to men to understand that other person – especially feels if the conclusion has to be drawn on a look, changes of intonation or a pose. Therefore if you show offense – he can just not notice it. Honestly, not from the evil. If you want something to achieve from it – express the desires directly. Men often do not understand "delicate hints".
3. What the man sees is much more important for him, than what he hears. Besides, men by the nature are more silent. Besides, they usually speak more slowly than women. Therefore if you "chirp" at it over an ear at the usual speed – be not surprised that a fair part of information will pass at it by ears.
4. The woman is attentive to details. While to the man the main thing is to assess a situation in general. Therefore it is rather senseless to ask it to compare among themselves two dresses of a difficult cut (he sees color and a silhouette) or to estimate a new make-up. "What you today beautiful!" - it he can estimate. And of what details there is this impression – hardly.
5. The man is inclined to rivalry, and he can compete only to men. Therefore for psychological comfort it needs communication "in a circle of the on spirit". And, if he wants to spend Saturday evening with friends – it does not mean that he does not want to see you. Communication with an opposite sex and "a men's sit-round gathering" - not vzaimozamenyama.
6. If not to take professional intelligence agents into account, then the man has everything "is written on a face". Look how he looks as behaves as he communicates with you – and trust in the feelings.