Mother of the husband can treat kindly the daughter-in-law, and can be ready negatively. It is necessary to understand what is not pleasant to her, to learn to gain the confidence that the relations were cloudless. Any behavior can be explained, important only to find ways everything to understand.
The woman brought up the son and always wants to him happiness. But she has the view of ideal life, the ideas of it. If the daughter-in-law seems not corresponding, mother of the husband can even try to separate spouses, in this case it is important not to accuse her, and to find ways of the solution of a situation.
What the mother-in-law thinks of
To understand behavior of the adult woman, it is necessary to begin to communicate with her. Occasions for this purpose it is possible to think up much, it is important to conduct dialogues in a feminine way, without presence of a strong half. At the same time it is necessary to ask questions of life, of how it understands happiness, the ideal relations. Having understanding what it wants for the son, it is possible to adapt easily.
It is possible to observe mother of the husband, she behaves as considers correct. Pay attention to trifles in life: as she prepares as she gives on a table as cleans up the apartment and puts things. It is important to learn the schedule, the principles of behavior in their family. Something should be borrowed and realized in the apartment, it precisely will be pleasant to it. Ask councils for different occasions the mother-in-law. Of course, you should not bother too not to seem silly, but it is worth calling several times a week. She will understand that you listen to her opinion that to you it is important that she thinks. Of course, councils can be not carried out, but just it is important to render respect and interest.
How to understand behavior of mother of the husband
If the mother-in-law behaves strange, try to understand her. At first present yourself on its place, think of how you will behave if your son marries. Do it without emotions, just think what is not pleasant to it from mother's position. You will easily find defects in the behavior and will be able to eliminate them. Forgive it alarm and concern for the child. Especially at first she will be afraid that the son has something is not right.something is not right.something is not right. She can even check your food or as shirts are ironed, she wants the boy to have everything only the best. Therefore do not give it a reason to doubt. Notice that it checks, and do it as she wants. Usually in several months of check stop. Understand that the jealousy is present always, this natural behavior. Of course, someone shows it, and someone is not present, but it is not necessary to be angry with it. Just try to make friends with this woman, prove the behavior that you do not take away from her the son that you do not want the termination of their communication, and on the contrary, you push him to communication with parents. You give to the mother-in-law small gifts, flowers. Any woman loves courtesies, it will allow to make friends. Just it is important to treat with love, with understanding that it brought up for you darling therefore it is what to thank for.