If it seems to you that the dissonance was outlined in your family, you began a thicket to quarrel with the wife and to be angry with it on any trifles, it means, you just ceased to understand it. Certainly, the female psychology differs from men's. But if you are not obliged to penetrate into subtleties of psychology of the employees at work, then to learn to understand the spouse have to. How to understand the wife to stop the conflicts in family?
Instruction
1. Look at a situation from its party. Perhaps, your behavior really deserves her condemnation. For example, you were late at work and forgot to warn about it the wife – to you was just once, it was necessary to finish urgently the project and you just forgot that houses wait for you. Of course, for yourself you are right – the administration demanded result, you entirely move away to work and could not think of anything the friend. But if to present itself on the place of the wife?
2. Only think: you wait after work of the darling, made a tasty dinner, cancelled a meeting with friends, and he besides that did not appear in time, so also does not answer calls! It is necessary just to understand how your behavior will affect your wife, you have to be responsible before the family.
3. You do not lead up the conflict to the point of absurdity if its reason – any small female whim. Let it be sometimes difficult and there is no wish to concede at all, but after all you always have to remember that before you the woman, a being of the weaker sex. Forgive to the wife small whims, learn to derive pleasure from what you do to her pleasant. Sometimes it is possible to watch its favourite French movie, but not the next comedy. Or to go to the day off to her parents, but not with friends to the country. Believe, the wife will estimate your efforts and will be capricious less!
4. Learn to listen to what to you is told by the wife and not to turn to her request a deaf ear. Nothing irritates the woman as need several times to repeat and ask the same. It is simpler to make at once about what the spouse asks you, than to bring a situation to another quarrel. Just understand that the wife considers your inaction disrespect in relation to her. Especially as to you, the strong and clever man, it is not so difficult to go to take out garbage at once or to allocate half an hour for helping the wife to sort things on a mezzanine.