If in your life there was a treason of darling – do not hurry to destroy the relations. In some situations treason it is possible to forgive, and darling who was mistaken, to return to the harmonious relations.
Instruction
1. First of all, if you found out that the man changed you, do not panic and do not arrange hysterics. It pushes away men even more.
2. Sort out that forced man change. The reasons can be in his dissatisfaction personally you and as far as your joint life changed.
3. Approach a question self-critically. Think whether it is necessary to change you something in itself?
4. If you understood that the man changed not because he has a personal crisis, and just because seriously fell in love with another and wants to start with it a family – be strong and release it, it will be the best exit.
5. Anyway, it is necessary for you seriously and without hysterics to talk to the man. It is quite possible that in the course of the conversation he will lay out to you all claims, you will create a number of arrangements and will begin to restore the relations.
6. Listen to each other, satisfy needs of each other, get joint common interests.
7. Sincerely also you show consideration for the partner – he will not want to leave you to another which, perhaps, will not show in relation to it the same sincerity and understanding. Do not refuse proximity with the partner – he needs confirmation that it has to remain with you.
8. Also an exit can become the joint campaign to the family psychologist who objectively will help to place all aspects of your relations in places and to cope with crisis.
9. If you with honor passed test by treason and the partner, having understood yourself, remained with you – quite perhaps, it will even more strengthen your relations and will support their long-term current.