If you hesitate or afraid to tell about the feelings directly, write the letter. Perhaps, it and will remain undispatched, but the fact that you after all could make a declaration of love, perhaps, will manage to bring together you with the addressee a little.
Instruction
1. Before beginning to write the letter on the feelings, sort out them. Think whether really it is love or just sympathy. And. maybe, your touching attitude towards this person is dictated by desire to run away from loneliness. Present that the addressee is near you at present, and write about those feelings which are caused in you by his emergence and communication with you (even if imagined).
2. Write the letter by hand, on usual paper. Hearts and the pigeons who are looking through in lines of the message look ridiculously. Do not write much. Focus on the most important – on darling and the feelings to it.
3. Begin the letter with the address by name, having added to it that epithet most of which fully reflects your true feelings: "expensive", "lovely", "gentle" and still a number of other words. However at once you should not write "darling" nevertheless, especially if you write him for the first time. You have to open gradually the feelings in the letter, but not puzzle at once the person who, perhaps, does not even suspect about your existence. Oddly enough, but in the love letter it is the best of all to use as little as possible the word "love" that it did not wear out ahead of time. But, even describing weather outside the window, it is possible to teach it so that the addressee will understand – you speak about the most sincere feelings to it.
4. Try not to give the ardent desire by all means to win heart of this person: the decision on how to treat you, he has to accept. Tell how your feeling arose as it grew and became stronger that you at the same time thought, rejoiced to it or, on the contrary, mourned. The true love usually means responsibility for the actions at soberminded people. And even if the feeling arose spontaneously when you were not ready to it, it is better to write about it, but not to hide all your difficulties on the way of comprehension of love behind general phrases.
5. Do not threaten it and do not try to cause pity. It is possible that he also will regret you, and over time and will try to fall in love. But understanding that on it it was pushed by you can cause in it alienation subsequently. If you played a cunning trick at the beginning or did not understand the feelings, having taken fleeting love for the beginning of love.