Each girl marries the man, representing him ideal for the planned life which she completed with the inquiries and requirements, expecting the embodiment of these dreams the adored husband. Whether there is it?
Men's standard
The vital periods before and after a wedding qualitatively differ from each other. Prior to a wedding the woman renounces any claims to the elect No, having entered the status lawful wives, the changed social status just obliges the new spouse to expand borders of the possession and requirements to now husband. Many of these requirements are, to put it mildly, overestimated.
Marrying, most of women agree also to paradise in a tent if only to be near darling. However not all maintain when begins to shake the family boat in a household storm. During this period of life there is also "rejection" of married couples. It becomes visible who is ready to family and who for the sake of a beautiful dress went to the REGISTRY OFFICE. The real family during tests does not use mutual reproaches and the analysis of the family budget who how many put in it, and on the contrary - in hard times high qualities of each other are remembered, are appreciated and remain, and warmth of these relations will never allow to die away to the family center.
If the husband gets less wife, it introduces an imbalance in the family relations. If the man does not want to lose family, has to or have work, income from which exceeds the income of the wife, or to find a side job.
What the woman would not be self-assured also proud, but she all equal needs protection. In her eyes the husband who can provide to the family tranquility and protection against negative factors from the outside – ideal. Protection is meant not that the husband the one frightening look will scare away all hooligans in the area, and in its practicality, in responsibility for the cell of society entrusted to it.
And there are women for whom the ideal of the man consists in his "clever fingers". At this option of the ideal man never in the house will be the broken chair or the non-working iron. His wife saw the lop-sided fence only at neighbors where at the owner "hands grow not from that place". And repair in the house of women does not frighten at all as its participation in it will be limited only "the wife, feed the tired worker!".
Not exception are women who are visual. Not important, what person on the moral qualities, but swarty skin, a press "in cubes", blue eyes, do it ideal for family. If the man fell in love with the lady with such addictions, then the year-round subscription in sport center will become more expensive than the passport to it.
The following type of the ideal man has to have such qualities as: courtesy, patience, good manners, good breeding. Such man can transfer with firmness the wife's whims not because of the fact that he "spineless" but because the quiet patience is one of his virtues. He can always calm the wife if she is upset with something and "sprays a thunder and lightnings". Such husband always remembers all dates and can be to them at gifts and beautiful loss for words. If the wife after all managed to bring him to a limit boiling point, he will not dare to explain "manually" to the wife the vision of the situation, remembering at the same time all her relatives and their mental capacities which they presented it at the gene level.
When in a dispute between the husband and the wife is born it is true, this newborn never hears the increased tones of the gallant husband but only measured convincing arguments. He is also not the despot who considers the opinion only correct at all family institute.
The ideal husband never composes from himself participation in education of children. Moreover, he, of course, will go for the sake of children to any victims to become for them a good example.
The lack of the following very important factor can spoil reputation and dump from a pedestal even the most ideal husband – he is a beautiful lover, and the wife gets all this charm only and to nobody any more!
Byl or nebyl
And yet what he is an ideal husband? They say that two persons are happy not when look at each other and when they look in one party. If mutual understanding reigns in family, then it also is ideal family, even in case of if the husband not absolutely approaches a standard. Ourselves to ourselves think out transcendental ideals and we take offense if our partner in life did not jump to them.
Why to seek for conquest of new tops if wonderful is near. To you also this main thing is together comfortable. And the fact that it incorrectly beats a nail or the meat grinder carried to repair shop – unless it so important? That only household nuances, and the human factor is much more valuable, warmer and closer. You love it it what it is, you for something fell in love with it and married.