It is difficult to argue that there is no love. Of course, it is, but this feeling understands everyone differently, generally opinions practically everything are similar. It is unclear one why some people claim that there is no love, or consider this feeling a disease.
What is love
It is possible to tell one, people learn about love since the childhood, in their brain as though programmed this feeling by education of parents, viewing various movies and reading books.
The love in novels is often extolled, wait for it, dream of it. In books love - fine feeling. However in life everything happens differently. Love often is unrequited therefore it is considered to be a disease, but not high feeling.
In a human body there is a hormone feniletilamin if it is simpler to tell - interest hormone. When the person falls in love, hormone of interest makes very difficult chemical reaction. Through some time the strongest hormone - a dopamine comes to an organism. It loads the person with energy and pushes on silly acts.
The love is a mental disease
The hormone which got to blood a dopamine causes accustoming if the soulmate does not reciprocate to you, the organism suffers and asks the next dose of this hormone. The proximity between two people causes happiness and pleasure in the person in love. The hormone which is responsible for happiness is called endorphin. The more often your bodies connect together, the more endorphins develop an organism, thereby people are attracted to each other. In three years, hormone ceases to work, respectively the love ended, and the attachment remained.
Some confuse love and attachment, these feelings are, approximately, identical, but differences between them after all are.
Six types of love
It is impossible to characterize love with an accuracy. Someone considers it feeling, someone - a disease. Everything depends on whether the person had a successful experience in the relations or not. If you found the soulmate and are happy, you, most likely, will be sure that the love is the finest feeling. If you are lonely also fell in love meekly, you will tell that the love is a disease which brings misfortunes alone and troubles. There are several types of this phenomenon. Are strict - friendly love, lasts long enough, the relations on durability constantly are tested. A mania - love at first sight, in such love both joy, and despair meet, the depression quite often develops. Lyuus - people in love pay attention to appearance, but not to inner world. To an Agape feast - the most gentle love, lasts it not for long, but flashes instantly. Pragma-people meet when something from each other is necessary to them, it is love by calculation, can pass into the real feelings. Eros - such love is attracted by sex, it is peculiar to men more likely after there is a sexual discharge, the feeling dies away.