Why two lovers, beginning to live in common, feel heat of a negative in the relations and continuous misunderstanding? From where do the irritation and offense when still yesterday you worshipped in each other arise?
The woman and the man - absolutely different creations, they a priori cannot be identical, think the same and to do acts which would satisfy the second half.
If to look in depth, then we will see that the man - the hunter! Prior to a wedding he seeks to catch darling in all possible ways and if to all other, object of desire is inaccessible - the man is ready for any feats and the victims.
After the wedding the woman, in independence of the desire, becomes the secret property of the spouse. For you it is offensive? Means, you the woman - a core, the strong personality, perhaps the dictator.
But whether it is easy to lead family life with such core? The man, getting under a heel of such dictator, it becomes passive, gloomy, indifferent. It with pleasure will give all the "burdens and cares of life", having shifted them to shoulders to the woman.
The result of such "happy" family life is known to all. Any woman will not begin to drag long on herself such very heavy cargo. It is simpler to it to refuse, than to destroy the life. But, there are exceptions – women who continue to suffer, suffer and be cried to girlfriends, but to change nothing.
In family the tense atmosphere is daily felt, dissatisfied shouts are often heard, sidelong glances and desire it is more rare to come home. She when went beyond it, considered that it is a prince. The only man who is the best of all on light and turns out that he is a parasite who does not want anything to change.
He prior to a wedding saw it a delicate flower from which wanted "to blow off motes", but later few months found near himself a thunder woman.
Outside all those qualities which before pronunciation treasured "Yes" both of you hid very much climb to catch each other. After the wedding you have nothing to hide from each other. Year after year all of you learn more the person who once was so expensive and close to you.
Feelings die away. Having woken up once, you find absolutely the stranger and do not understand why so occurred. Stop to look for negative sides in the relations, stop any imminent disagreement.
Try to make a step, despite pride and offense. Be patient, suddenly there will be a miracle, and your soulmate will change, having become that former angel with whom you fell in love once.
We, women can prove to be strong, courageous, firm in the decisions, but it is necessary to do it intelligently. To do so that the man, understood that you become angry about him, you want to change something. But, it is correct to do it that he did not cast between you ""saw"" and ""log"".
At the correct approach - he will listen with love and understanding. And after will gently embrace and will tell: ""My girl, I am ready for everything for the sake of you!"".
If the woman always praises, love, to respect the man, it is correct to push him on fulfillments - such union will be strong and ideally desired and passionate.