Many mothers consider that the father will not cope with the kid, will not be able to replace a diaper, to feed and calm. And absolutely in vain, by the way! Tens of thousands of men bravely raise children without mothers and perfectly cope. So you should not humiliate the father of the child with mistrust.
It is no secret that to men the understanding of paternity reaches slightly more slowly, than feeling of motherhood women. But it does not mean yet that in case of need it is impossible to entrust the man of his child. It is scientifically proved that all necessary skills and abilities in them are put at the physiological level. And let he is clumsy, let not so quickly and dexterously as mother, but the father will manage to change clothes of the kid and to feed him. Communication of the father and child is necessary for both of them and it is not necessary to be afraid of them to leave to mummies alone. In the presence of mother the father will surely find an excuse not to carry out a ""very-syllabic"" duty, and here having remained in private with the kid, he will not be able to make it.
Several practical recommendations for mothers
1. Before being removed, leave everything that can be necessary, on the foreground that the husband could find easily everything, without being enough phone and without calling to the aid you each five minutes. Prepare for the child (and the father, of course) to eat, drink, favourite cartoons, books, toys.
2. At later age of the child (3-5 years) try not to prevent communication of the child with the father. Many mothers prompt each step, and both to the kid, and the father - he is able, he speaks, he loves, make so, put here, take a spoon in a different way. This way it is impossible to act categorically! In most cases communication of the father with the child is seldom the result of eternal employment of the father. So do not disturb - it is their time, it it to decide and to study them to interaction and dialogue! These rare minutes the child receives male attention, male skills, education, etc. You give what you have to give it, and here the father seldom is in time so try not to interfere with process. Even girls need to receive male attention and to know male opinion on any given question.
3. The child went to school... Do not undertake completely communication with teachers, leave also to the father such pleasure. Let at least occasionally him see off the child in school and meets him, attends PTA meetings and the emergency calls. The same situation and with doctors - sometimes there can descend and the father, HAS TO more true!
You remember - in education of the healthy personality, both the man, and the woman have to take part in formation of socialization of the child. And only in this case at the child the strong character will be built up, he will be self-assured, is sociable.