Sometimes there is a wish to spend all free time with darling. For these purposes some couples gather and begin to live together. But before gathering with the young man, it is necessary to weigh pluses and minuses of joint life.
Pluses of joint life with the guy
You will be able to spend more time together. You wake up in the morning, you have breakfast, you gather and you leave the house with darling. You share fresh impressions about last day in the evening, then you are able to afford to talk or be engaged in another joint matters late.
It is more than time for sex. It is not necessary to adapt more to the schedule of parents or to do it quickly in hotel. All evening and night you can indulge in love joys. Any witnesses, restrictions and hindrances. Everything depends only on your desires.
It is less than expenditure for rent and other expenses. If you lived in two different apartments earlier, now it is possible to save. There will be an economy on other small expenses, for example, to household appliances. A part of things from last apartments can be sold, and on the gained money to get something really necessary. Cohabitation allows to feel really adult and free. The exit with the apartment of parents, arrangement of the new house, payment of utility bills and other routine questions will help to mature quickly. You will be able to enjoy freedom and feeling of own independence.
Minuses of joint life with the guy
There are new household problems. It is necessary to prepare more, to erase, clean up, iron and to perform other routine housework. Men, as a rule, seldom undertake household chores, and generally it falls on girls. Financial questions can become the cause of the serious conflicts. Earlier you existed separately and did not report in wastes before each other, and now you need to learn to live together. The man can not estimate purchase of a new handbag or shoes, and you can be disappointed because of purchase of winter rubber for the car. At cohabitation it is necessary "to try" more. 24 hours a day to look well-groomed, beautifully and to watch itself. Not any man can quietly accept transformation of its "model" into the ordinary girl. There can be problems with communication. Spending so much time together, you quickly discuss all usual subjects, and it will be necessary to look for new. Some couples leave at this stage, realizing that they too different and to them there is nothing to talk. You will be able to know each other better. Earlier you could see only an official type of the partner, but now it clearly. Sleepy and angry since morning, sitting late in the computer, tired after work. Many relations fall because of different views on life. Joint life prior to a wedding helps to look at your future soberly. Whether your views of financial and everyday issues coincide? Whether constant presence of your guy irritates you? Your tastes are how similar? But do not forget that a lot of things depend on your couple. If you perfectly understand each other and are able to solve peacefully conflict situations, joint life will bring only joy.