Some people marrying sincerely believe that they will remain faithful to "half". The concept "treason" seems to them far and abstract. But, alas, in life there is anything! And here in one not wonderful day the husband learns that the wife changes him. Or the spouse will knows that darling has a mistress. What to do, having learned this unpleasant, painful truth?
For example, the wife convicted the husband of treason. Certainly, each specific woman solves this problem in own way, proceeding from the ideas of borders admissible, education, temperament, habits. An important role is played also by depth of feelings to the unfaithful spouse, presence of children and their age. But after all there is a certain general algorithm of actions to which it would be worth adhering. It is clear, that the woman is overflowed by anger, offense, rage. It is quite natural reaction if to consider that the weaker sex in general more emotionally than men. Nevertheless, the wife should get it together and to ask the main issue: whether she wants to keep family? If the answer is affirmative, it is necessary, having overcome such clear and a natural "accusatory bias" to try to find the answer to other question: why it changed? What induced it to it? Once the husband did not want even to look at other women! For him there was only it. He fell in love with her, asked to become his wife. So in what the treason reason?
Happens that the woman who is entirely absorbed by house efforts, child care ceases to watch herself. Whether it is possible to accuse the husband of treason if instead of the former slender, well-groomed beauty he sees houses any ordinary-looking aunt in a baggy dressing gown and slippers, without traces of a make-up and charm day by day?
Or here such situation. The woman even after long years of marriage treats intimate aspect of life as "matrimonial duties". And any attempts of the husband to bring a variety their relations, to convince her that intim is not limited to one missionary pose (besides, in complete darkness), meets sharply negatively, seeing in it nearly debauchery. Whether it is worth being surprised and indignant if at the spouse, after all, the patience bursts, and will pull it on the party? In such and similar cases if the woman is ready to recognize that in treason of the husband there is also her fault, the best exit will be to forgive and reconcile. And also to draw all necessary conclusions not to provoke repetition of such situation in the future. If the deceived wife after all decided to divorce, it is necessary to try to make it adequately, without scandals, hysterics and mutual claims. At least for the sake of children for whom the divorce of parents will already be a hard psychological blow.