In young family the child is born - it is huge happiness and heavy responsibility. But all these efforts, cares and difficulties can cause discord in the relations of spouses. Hardly it is necessary both mother, and the newborn's father. Fathers often begin to vanish at work not to be involved in this vanity with the shouting baby of the house.
Instruction
1. New mummies often make to the husbands the following claim: "You do not help me at all, I am turned with the child all the time, nights I do not sleep!". And the husband not to listen to reproaches, sits with friends with a glass of beer in bar. He does not even know how to help the wife how to be risen to little, but such exacting being.
2. Presence of parents of spouses can aggravate a situation. Often they render the effective help in child care, moral and physical. But often happens that seniors only foment the conflict and get in the way. The young wife has to regain control over situation as soon as possible not to destroy the family.
3. Objectively estimate the help which you receive from grandmothers and grandfathers of the kid. Look, maybe, there is an opportunity to do all main work to you with the husband. Charge to parents business, feasible and not really burdensome for them. For example, grandmothers can wash together things of the baby and bring them to you clean and ironed. Grandfathers will quite cope with walks with the kid or with delivery of products.
4. You will release enough time which you with pleasure find for yourself and the offended spouse. Gradually accustom him to care for the child. Make kid bath and ask the young father to bath him. The husband can put the child to bed, feed him from a small bottle.
5. Do not abuse it at all if something did not turn out. The spouse will learn to communicate with the baby, if it is followed only by joy and cheerful laughter, he will aspire to these games.
6. Of course, to you as to the wise wife, it is necessary to consider the schedule of work of the husband. He has to have a rest properly not to sleep at office, risking to draw upon himself anger of the administration.
7. Once a week you ask parents to stay with the child that you with the spouse distracted from cares and efforts somewhere in cozy cafe or club. Go to the cinema together, walk on the park, meet friends. In this case your husband and the father of the kid will return to family and will feel favourite, necessary and happy.