The tendency of men to polygamy stopped being a secret for women for a long time. However the incorrectness of own partner seems something outstanding. Presence of the mistress at the husband or the guy painfully wounds vanity, leads to full loss of trust and is frequent even to break in relations.
The main issue which it is necessary to answer, having learned about the guy's affair, - whether to remain near it, hoping to return former feelings, or to leave as soon as possible. The first option is justified when the relations on the party had accidental character and the guy sincerely regrets the act. Anyway, it is worth making this important decision with the cold head. Give yourself a week timeout to calm down and think a little over prospects of your relations. If you decided to give the elect one more chance, then it is necessary to understand the reasons of its treason and to eliminate them. Sexual dissatisfaction. In spite of the fact that modern young ladies said goodbye to complexes, incompatibility in a bed becomes frequent the reason of unfaithfulness. If at the beginning of the relations you were ready to do "it" always and everywhere, then over time desire weakens, household cares and vital disorders force out from the head of a thought of sex. And here the man still feels strong attraction and is perplexed why the head so often began "to hurt you suddenly". The unsatisfied man becomes irritable, rough, aggressive. If the situation does not change, then he begins to seek to himself the girl elsewhere. To revive in himself former passion, follow an example of own guy who for certain thinks of sex almost constantly. Try to scroll also continually you in the head the juiciest memoirs or own erotic imaginations. By the evening your only desire will be to drag quicker darling in a bed. Sincere dissatisfaction. Guys perceive misses and defeats much more painfully, than girls. The male vanity is very vulnerable. Therefore men expect from the darling approval and admiration which helps them to try to obtain professional and personal heights. But women often consider a duty, on the contrary, to criticize the partner and to point to his mistakes. In that case the man goes on the left not so much in search of novelty how many hoping to find understanding and support from the new mistress. Do not forget to pay to the partner as much as possible attention, to discuss important issues with it and also more often to give compliments.