Many girls perceive jealousy of the guy as pleasant addition to expression of its feelings – is jealous, means loves. The grain of truth in this statement is, but only very insignificant as the jealousy is the pernicious and destroying feeling.
Sources of jealousy are in own uncertainty – the guy is afraid of the fact that he is insufficiently good for the girl, feels constant fear and waits when she throws it. These emotions are not always shown obviously, often such beliefs are formed at the level of subconsciousness, preventing the person to build the relations. To decide how to treat jealousy, it is possible only having tried to understand motives of the guy. The jealousy is absolutely normal and adequate answer to unworthy behavior of the girl – she can behave provocatively, make advances to other guys, spend much time in the company of other admirers, etc. Therefore if your relations already reached level serious, then accept the fact that from now on you have to show all the sexuality and relaxedness only to it. Do not confuse friendly feelings with cavalier manners. It is necessary to struggle with jealous men their weapon – try to behave in the same way, just to become its specular reflection. It is quite probable that, having visited an image of "the victim of the jealous woman", it will revise the behavior and will improve. It is possible to hint it that such relations are not what you counted on, beginning to meet it. If he is not able to cope with the problem, then offer the help – an informal conversation, role-playing games, consultation of the psychologist. During attacks of jealousy behave quietly and indifferently, your response in the form of justificatory speeches are what he waits for. Help darling to overcome diffidence, prove to him that for you it is the best and desired. Quite another matter, when the guy is jealous without cause – he is just pathological owner who cannot allow loss of darling. Such people can be dangerous, especially if the jealousy is combined with explosive character – and before manhandling nearby. If you noticed though the slightest signs that it is difficult for guy to behave, or there were already precedents, then immediately leave him. And it is necessary to do it accurately, without striking blows to the ego with the juicy scandals and hysterics. It is the best of all to get support of strong friends, brother or father who, if something happens, will be able to help you and to intimidate the jealous man.