Today parents of the whole world try to earn more and more in order that life of their children proceeded happily. But how many they have to earn for this purpose money and whether this sum will make happy their children? The answer often same – kind of a lot of money was not, they will not bring true happiness. If you do not live in poverty, then money of happiness will not bring. But what then is important?
Instruction
1. Communication. Thoughtful, quiet and informative communication perfectly brings together the child and his parents. Besides, through communication the child studies mutual respect, but not hysterics.
2. Attention to the child's life. Often adults just do not pay attention to problems of the children. Problems of adults are always important for adults, so why not to deal with problems of children also densely, as well as own? Sit down with the child and discuss with him its difficulties, and then he will treat them in a different way. Tell him that there are children at whom it is even worse than a problem. For example, your child cannot play a game, and other child has no money for water. Then the problem will not disappear, just will become less large-scale. Listen to the child and share the experience also opinion.
3. Joint pastime. Joint games are important not only for health, but also for rapprochement of children and their parents. Run together, walk outdoors, arrange fires, you go to sections and be engaged in many other occupations. The most important is to find the arranging activity degree that also the child, and you were not tired in five minutes.
4. Tenderness and caress. You give as much as possible heat and caress to the child, then he will not begin to look for subconsciously them at foreign people. You tell to the child pleasant words, you praise him, support and let's it correct the errors. Remember that the child without caress will grow up nervous and will not treat caress any more as you would like. For example, animals even at mature age with pleasure will receive from you tenderness, and your child who became already adult will not need it.