Many made mistakes on the first appointment, because of nervousness and other reasons. What you should not do on the first appointment.
1. The taboo subject on the first appointment is last relations. You should not mention being at all, to compare, list quantity. It will not be interesting to interlocutor to listen as well you spent time or as disgustingly treated you. On the first appointment nobody will want to listen to details of your private life with other people.
2. You should not start a conversation about money. Even if you are successful and want to make an impression. For the guy it is the best of all to show the solvency acts. Invite the girl in expensive restaurant, give a gift, in every possible way surprise her with the pleasant moments. Avoid long monologues how much you earn and you are able to afford all. To the sincere girl, we do not speak about millionaire hunter, it will be interesting to learn at first that you for the person what are capable of and what qualities you have.
3. Excessive flirtation is unacceptable on the first appointment. The girl can think that you have bad intentions, and you invited her to an appointment only in hope intimate continuation of evening. The guy with whom the girl excessively flirts on the first appointment will estimate it as the person of easy virtue who can be used for designated purpose.
4. The visual contact is very important, you look each other in the face, you should not look away, directing it to anything, only not to the interlocutor, it is sign that you are nervous, or to you is simply uninteresting to be near the person.
5. Avoid phone conversations during the appointment, you should not be distracted by sending SMS messages, so you show disrespect, there will be an unpleasant impression. On an appointment it is necessary to devote completely the attention to the person with which you are nearby.
6. Very important on the first appointment not to get drunk at all. Of course, it is possible to afford a little light alcohol, slightly wines, one cocktail, but you should not abuse alcohol. The behavior of the drunk person cardinally changes, he becomes more free, impudent, can tell superfluous and the appearance leaves much to be desired.
7. Do not sit up. You should not leave only when all subjects for a conversation are exhausted, and any of you begins to look for hours. It is necessary to say goodbye on a good note, leave an intrigue, innuendo, then it will be possible easier to appoint the second appointment.