Before beginning to look for the girl, it is necessary to be defined what specifically the relations you want. If you just try to get rid of loneliness, without wishing anything to change in the life, your attempts, most likely, are doomed to a failure.
How to choose the girl for the serious relations
Initially, before beginning to look for the girl for the serious relations, it is necessary to spend some time for considering of the principles by which you live. When you understand yourself and will consider that for you has bigger value, it is possible to begin to look for the girl with similar views on life.
In case you are a quiet person and adhere to conservative views, it is worth looking approximately for the same girl. And if you creative soul, is necessary to you very active or same creative girl who if necessary will be able to support you at a difficult moment and to fall in love with your creations what they were.
In general, people have different views on a thing and in it there is nothing terrible. For example, the man considers that it is better to treat children tablets, and the woman adheres to traditional medicine, but the main thing that both of them love and want children. Because of here such small disagreements they will definitely not divorce. But happens and so that he wants children, and the woman categorically against it, in that case it can lead even to a divorce.
What needs to be known to meet the girl for the serious relations
To find the girl, future wife, you need to become the married man even before your acquaintance to it. Maybe it will sound for you paradoxically, but in order that to achieve somebody or something it is necessary to reach for a start mentally to become that whom exactly you want to be. Only then you will be able to become that whom you want to be in reality. To be necessary to understand that the woman or the girl, will want to be only with that guy whom it will perceive as the man. That is it needs such person in whom it will be able to trust. To trust and trust is different things. As it is possible to trust the best friend or just the relative. And here it is possible to trust in only very loved one. In order that the girl went to the serious relations with the man, it is only not enough "to pretend to be" strong, careful and reliable, you have to be such in the consciousness. Otherwise sooner or later the girl distinguishes falseness, and the relations on it can end, without having managed to develop into happy family. Therefore the first that to you it is necessary, it to experience itself the family man and the head of the family, to realize a role of future father, to think of family duties which anyway should be carried out. In a word, become the husband and the head of the family even before acquaintance.
Where to find the girl for the serious relations
For conservative people who do not want to look for the girl for the serious relations on Internet open spaces there is a traditional method of acquaintance. It is possible to get acquainted with the girl just walking in crowded places (parks, the central city streets, large shopping centers). For search of the girl for the serious relations it is necessary to remember some things. There is one interesting saying which says: "Meet on clothes, and see off on mind", it is crucial here. That is for successful acquaintance it is necessary to look good. It does not mean that you are obliged to be dressed in a full dress and a tie, but the footwear here polished, the ironed clothes have to be present surely.