Sometimes in life of the girl the choice between the relations with the husband and the lover appears. To give preference to someone to one happens very difficult, but you after all should make it.
Why you should not throw the husband for the sake of the lover
If you had a choice between the spouse with whom you long time lived in marriage, and the lover, you need to weigh everything pros and cons before making some decision.
Attentively take a detached view of both men. Compare not only their appearance which will not play any role in your coexistence, but also character of men. You have to choose to yourself such partner in life who will never betray and will not deceive you, will be a reliable support and support in all your problems, difficulties and undertakings. Your man has to be strong and courageous, hardy and resistant and also careful. Besides, do not forget that if now you have no children, in the future they will appear.
To throw the legal husband for the sake of the lover sometimes happens silly as the husband is a person with whom you hand in hand went already long way, coped with many difficulties and obstacles. You almost by heart learned all its habits, know how it will behave in any given situation. And your spouse for certain at any time can guess that it is necessary for you for entire happiness. Your love for the lover can cool down also quickly, as well as flashed therefore if you are not sure for hundred percent of sincerity of the feelings, you do not hurry with conclusions better and leave everything as it is.
Why it is necessary to throw the husband and to leave to the lover
The relations of soulmates in a legal or civil marriage not always are ideal. Sometimes women live with the husbands who do not care for them properly, get intrigues on the party, have no vital purposes and think only of themselves. Besides, the man can suffer from some addictions against which he does not wish to fight. If your legal husband - the thorough egoist not capable to provide you the ideal future, and the lover - the perspective young man who sincerely loves you tries to please you and to give you any support, you can safely give preference to the second man and enjoy the new relations. Only you remember that if before you there was a hard choice between two men, it is better not to take them for a ride, and to admit honestly appearance of the rival and in the fact that you cannot decide on the feelings yet. Any lie will become a reality sooner or later therefore, having hidden the truth, you can lose the love.