Circumstances which bring doubts in sincerity of feelings of the spouse happen almost at each woman. Some begin to notice that at him eyes at the sight of the neighbor burn, others analyze late returns or excessive care of the image.
Oh these suspicions...
The girl who is married for certain is suspicious of suddenly arisen desire of the husband to endlessly change shirts, to have a shave and smell sweet as cologne. However all these gestures of the spouse do not speak about treason or appearance of the competitor yet. Though the crept-in doubts in his decency already begin to corrode consciousness …
Thoughts of treason give rise to desire to track the beloved husband. However suspicions are not always confirmed, but a worm of mistrust and feeling that you are betrayed - the most destructive in the relations loving and darlings. Phone conversations in other room do not mean appearance of the mistress, they can be caused by problems at work or even preparation of any surprise for the jealous wife.
Many of women suffer suspicions and think that it would be worth having shadowed blessed. Whether it is necessary to watch the husband, each wife for herself solves, but it is possible to tell about if you chose a way of shadowing, the final will be deplorable anyway. It happens for one simple reason: the trust is lost also feeling of love, most likely, too. Very few people can forgive the fact that he is suspected of what he did not make.
After check of fidelity, only units of married couples manage to keep the relations and the bitter deposit of disappointment in darling will remain all the same.
Whether it is necessary to watch the spouse?
If to reflect on whether it is worth watching the husband, one may say, that costs. But it is necessary to do it only if there is an intention to divorce from benefit for itself or to lose the kind and light attitude towards itself. Whether will not more simply share the doubts and to ask darling what occurs? The answer to your question will dot one's "i's" and cross one's "t's". Any man will not lie if he does not want to keep family and love of the wife. While the husband denies everything, he values you and your relations even if he plaid pranks on the party.
Real men do not drag to the house the affairs on the party, they care for children, the beloved wife and the reputation of the exemplary family man.
Self-confidence - the integral line of each happy woman. She needs to care for the husband, children also the main thing, it is kind of banal sounded – to watch itself, but not each step of the husband. It is always much simpler to destroy something, than to create. In the same way it turns out also in the relations between the woman and the man. Think, and suddenly and watch you? Perhaps and your acts and behavior raise doubts in the head of darling? You treat him as wish it concerned you. A basis of a close-knit and strong family - love and trust, tenderness and respect, but not suspicions and shadowing.