Times when men went shooting, and women cooked food and raised children, long ago passed. Today the family center is created by two loving hearts which swore to be true each other, to love and care about each other mutually. Love – it is good, but it, as they say, "will not be full", and the family has to be provided.
Duties in family
All main components on arrangement, furniture, care of children, washing, cooking, cleaning, etc., lay down in family on the woman. So happens most often. The question arises: and what role in family is played by the man? Naturally, except as: it is material to provide and help with a family life, nothing else occurs. It is classical option of ordinary family.
Now the woman wants to feel with the man as equals. Naturally, men protest. Not only that the wife works itself, not always copes with household chores, the husband has to be interrupted by sandwiches, children are sometimes provided to themselves, the house is not removed, so she also claims that he is obliged to provide family completely. Agree, the anger of the man in this case is justified. It is possible to understand also the woman's position: all household chores on it, the husband is busy only with getting of money which completely does not want to include in the family budget because the wife works too. Therefore to it the woman does not report on the income.
Actually, in the real family the people have to discuss and coordinate everything. It will be simpler if the husband, and the wife define what quantity of money will leave on own expenses and what is to give to the family budget.
The purposes of creation of family for spouses
The woman marries to give birth to the child, to create homeliness and to surround the house with warmth and care and also to get comfort from men's care, to feel "a strong shoulder". Most often, during creation of family moves the man desire to possess the beloved.
Most often, the man just does not understand all responsibility which he undertakes for life of mother and child, marrying.
The man always requires from the darling full return and care of himself, favourite. He did not get used to give all earned money to someone, he spent them for himself. Very often with such husband the woman gets "the second child" to whom she has to show a lot of patience and softly recustomize it under the family relations. Therefore if the woman with it as equals if she decently earns, naturally, it is necessary to discuss the joint budget, honestly to make the planned expenses on itself, on family, on life. Other option just does not exist. To each other here not to do without trust. Very often because of the examination reason who to whom has to the family does not get out of the conflicts and scandals. Lovely lovers, try to remember how you loved and trusted each other, it is necessary to keep the relations, not to allow life to destroy them. It is necessary to help and trust each other.