Modern women are forced to be strong and independent as times of knights on white horses passed long ago. Today women alone raise children, do business, receive on several higher educations and so on. However a payment for force the loneliness as men avoid such women becomes frequent.
Consequences of female force
Men in the majority prefer women near whom they can relax and receive a portion of admiration which is vital them for their male vanity. For the sake of it they are even ready to offer the esthetic preferences, having chosen neither the cleverest, nor the most beautiful woman who will force them to feel the demigod.
Having the strong and self-sufficient personality in companions of life, the man is forced to correspond constantly to it – and about self-affirmation against the background of such woman and there is nothing to speak. Most often strong ladies occupy near men a role of "the friend in a skirt" with whom it is possible to talk, ask frankly council and … to go home, under a cozy wing of the girlfriend who is listening spellbound to the man. Usually women with a steel core inside are avoided not only by weaklings, but also strong men who simply do not suffer the competition.
Modern realities forced many women to adapt to severe conditions of today's world, to put on armor and to begin to stop white horses at full tilt barehanded. However under this armor of the woman continue to remain the beings wishing caress and love above all, but it becomes harder and harder to show this part of the nature to the man over time. As a result the female soul becomes hardened, the character becomes aggressive and Nordic that, naturally, frightens off the men who are looking for gentle Turgenev young ladies even more.
How to become weak
Not to remain lonely, it is not obligatory for woman to turn into the chirping little fool – it is enough to show a little acting skills and to represent role of the Victorian lady. First, men need to show periodically the helplessness in affairs which were carried out from time immemorial by a male. Repair of the broken chair, replacement of a wheel in the car, a conversation with the loutish neighbor and other similar things will allow the man to feel the natural superiority which it is possible to allow it. To subdue the man, it is necessary to slightly open to him the small confidential weaknesses – for example, confidentially to tell about the phobias. Also it is necessary to remember that lady Sovershenstvy was only Mary Poppins, and the ordinary woman can relax near the man and be covered for a while with his wide back. In communication with it you should not speak constantly only about the work and problems – it is necessary to add a little femininity and to talk about something neutral, but interesting to both interlocutors. And, of course, it is very important to be weakened inside – otherwise the man will feel deception.