Happens so that throughout almost all life you feel hostility from people around, and begin to think sooner or later why so occurs. Most likely, business here in you, so is something that pushes away from you people. Let's try to understand this question and we will find out what people are loved by people.
Why I am not loved by people?
So, if do not want to communicate with you if it does not become comfortable and unpleasant to people around in your society, can you:
- Are incapable to control the behavior. Perhaps, you are too emotional and straightforward. Without constraining the emotions, you can shout at the person, deride him, certainly, next time the offended person will try to avoid your company. In society it is necessary to behave it is constrained, nobody needs your remarks, be more tolerant and quieter, then everything will get better.
- Chronic crybaby. If you constantly complain of unfortunate life and difficult destiny, then, certainly, people will begin to be tired of you. Each person has problems, and bothers to listen strangers simply. On the contrary try to be the cheerful and winning personality that people around thought that in your life everything is fine.
- Too persuasive person. It is very heavy to communicate with such people, they tire, irritate, it is heavy to get rid of them. With any person of bore behave as with the best friend, try to tell as much as possible about the life and to learn about others.
- Eternally dissatisfied person. Such person is capable to spoil mood under any circumstances. He constantly is dissatisfied with something, criticizes all, absolutely inconsiderate, to please such person very hard. People reach for those with whom it is possible to spend cheerfully and quietly time, but not to those who are eternally dissatisfied with the events.
Try to eradicate in yourself these shortcomings, and understand that people love each other for devotion, kindness, ability to support in a difficult situation, etc.