Men treat a gap easier, than women as they break off the emotional attachment quicker in relation to the person to whom they were close. It comes from the fact that they already have a certain experience, let it also fell on childhood. It is about proximity with mother who is lost by 5-7 years of life.
Actually, you often see men who are tormented by a heavy depression, eating greedily a big briquette of the ice cream under the tearful movie or crying in the company of the friends. You do not see such things, just because in a severe man's world it is so not accepted to do. The man is considered the stronger sex which is ready to curtail into a mutton horn any misfortune, even such as parting with the beloved. Since the childhood of boys learn that they should not cry at all, otherwise will turn into the real girls with braids.
Nevertheless there are such males who can burst into tears, not constrain the emotions in public, but they will be uninteresting to us. We will not consider them courageous. Unless it is possible to go to the world's end with the man ready to burst into tears from a view of a lovely puppy? Ourselves make them by such stale taciturn persons because any emotion will be apprehended for a weak point. The stronger sex does not like to show the weak points on the general review, especially on female public.
We already found out the fact that men are able to operate in perfection the emotions. So from where to us to know about whether your ex-husband or the lover endures break in relations, he in every way tries to reach similarity to the indifferent rock. The truth is that he will never show you the pain, it is equivalent to admit own weakness.
The man who had not first these relations already gained a certain experience. At it even own system on treatment of the ""wounded"" soul is developed. Besides friends as can, will try to dispel it and to switch to other passion. Women will sort all moments with the girlfriend and to talk long about the former love. As they will be able quickly to switch to other person if savor parting, without allowing themselves to forget any detail. Sometimes, from outside it is possible to think that they just enjoy own tears and pain, like the masochist.
The man will hardly agree to such pastime even if actually feels severe pain from loss of darling. It is easier for it to be with this problem in private, even the close friend will not always know about his real feelings.