In the man's life very often do to women a set of various offers and not always receive on them affirmative answers. Some men react to refusal of the girl quietly, and some prefer to answer with roughness.
The man since ancient times was a getter, the conqueror. To try to obtain the woman – a natural instinct. On the nature the man is loveful. From the youngest age, they begin to prove, show an affection to girls, to give gifts, to look for approach to the pleasant person. Despite such similarity, everyone chooses for this purpose the ways. Some at the sight of the beautiful lady approach her and others suggest to get acquainted directly, invite to drink coffee or tea, the third - to descend somewhere. Problems begin if in reply they hear refusal. Some men perceive it as blow to the vanity. Someone after refusal in general ceases to show an initiative and to meet girls, someone perceives soft refusal as a game and does not attach it significance, others react inadequately, can be rude with the woman or begin to humiliate it.
Anyway, reaction of the man directly depends on behavior of women.
In modern society the people got used to care only for themselves. Very few people are concerned by others feelings. Facing the woman with a high self-assessment, the guy begins to elicit caress literally. There passes time, courting begins to bother, his nerves on a limit, and it has a splash of emotions. Here also reproaches, insults and roughness begin. The solvency of the partner can become the reason of such behavior too. Not each man will be able to bear the companion more richly than. Trying to please, he does not find the means which are not able to execute all inquiries and is refused. Reaction – rage and roughness.
No wonder, the man spent time and means in anywhere.
The impossibility to receive arrangement to itself is one more of the reasons of roughness which appears with understanding that the lady preferred other man. Sometimes it happens so that acquaintance was successful, courtesies, flirtation, the invitation it is accepted, but the girl just does not come to a meeting and does not take the call. The man in indignation, he was deceived. Yes, unfortunately, there are such women who thus just amuse the vanity. Roughness of men in response to such act it is quite possible to forgive. Problems of emotional character are the following reason of cruel behavior of the man. Some men just revenge all girls in a row for last failures. And everyone next only aggravates situation. Anyway, what motives of refusal would not be, you should not react and answer with roughness. It is possible to revise the behavior and to change it. It is more than experience, it is more than chances of success. Perhaps, the next refusal – a quite good push for transition to new level.