Quite often happens in many families that the man with the woman change roles. And it looks as follows: the wife becomes ""horse"" and constantly ""plows"" for family to earn money, and the husband just loses interest in work. Why does that happenWhy does that happenWhy does that happen why the husband does not wish to work?
Instruction
1. Look, perhaps at your husband the crisis of middle age began. It can happen even in 20 years. As a rule, this crisis appears because the person at first tries to make something in the life, to change or to achieve something. As a last resort, he tries to use any opportunities or to create certain prerequisites for own development and also extraction of material profit. However one day he begins to understand that all that your husband tried, various attempts to growth, nothing simply helps. And life goes further somehow monotonously, without special changes and monetary profit. At the same time, if still there is nearby a wife at whom everything perfectly develops, everything turns out, she reached career development, then it wounds the man his male vanity. In this case it is just necessary to support the spouse, but not to ""saw"" him.
2. Think, your husband can does not wish to work because you him deprived of any desire something to do. If at you already became a habit to do everything for the man most, then it is necessary to get rid of it urgently. Otherwise you do not receive any initiative from your promised. At the same time, when only these prerequisites begin to appear (prerequisites of your vozglavleniye of family), your husband will try to resist. And then it will just bother him, and he will begin you to accompany.
3. Analyze why your husband does not want to work after all. Can because you earn so many that it is enough for keeping of all family. In this case it is necessary to decide how it is better to make for full-fledged happiness of your family. You can just throw all female duties on the husband and, most likely, it will quickly bother him, and it will very quickly find work. Or you can threaten it with a divorce, but it is the most extreme method.