Why the man brings the mistress

Why the man brings the mistress

Not each family can brag of durability of the relations and confidence in the partner in life. Problems in family life and men's treason disturbs women more and more and most likely will never take a back seat. Men manage to bring mistresses on the party even in case the relations with the spouse in a full order. So why they need mistresses?

If to think, then to bring the mistress, having at the same time full-fledged family, it is simply unprofitable for the man. And from the psychological, and material point of view. It nothing but excess headache and monetary costs of gifts, restaurants and providing second woman. Instead of arriving on time home after the working day, to have supper, take a bath and to lay down on a sofa, the man acquires troubles, going to the mistress. It is necessary to justify itself after that before the spouse who already began to lose patience and trust.

There is the whole set of various factors which push the man on unfaithfulness: fading of interest in the wife, excess of hormones, curiosity, desire to diversify sexual life, education, heredity, and at times and banal alcohol. But the traitor's environment – friends and acquaintances who push on this step becomes the main reason often. The law - "when in Rome do as the Romans do" works almost smoothly.

Often the man has in the head sexual fantasies which do not manage to be realized with the spouse. Therefore men try to find the mistress to carry out everything conceived, thought up from own scenarios or noticed in pornographic movies. If it finds such woman, then their communication can last for years and to disturb nobody. Getting missing feelings on the party, the spouse behaves in family much better, than earlier. Successful people have to be those in everything and sometimes, proving the viability, men wish to look the real males. However it is not the best reason to create novels on the party. In this case does not smell of either understanding, or love, or desire. Here smells of egoism and money. At the same time the mistress has to be model appearance to show financial position of the man and his taste. Sometimes the man ceases to feel the importance in family and life: there is not enough money, the career falls, the wife saws and does not try to understand. Just at such moment near it there is that woman who literally idolizes him and looks with adoration. She does not oblige to anything, does not impose requirements, is respectful also delight to each act. Well and how not to become attached to this person? She as if antidepressant near which it is quiet and cozy. Here also men dive into a hospitable mink of the mistress, and here her appearance, the main thing is not important at all that they revere them.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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