Most of women wants to marry, make family, to give birth to children. This dream at women sits in the head from younger age: in kindergarten the little girls play family. But, unfortunately, some girls till a maturity cannot find narrowed, and creation of family is postponed indefinitely.
Because of what at women it is impossible to make family?
Well, first, it is psychological unavailability of the woman to have family. She can say that she already ripened for a marriage and for family, but actually, at heart is afraid of such responsibility, is afraid to lose freedom, is afraid not to get on well at career development. Secondly, it is unavailability, and better to say, fear of the man to make family. At the beginning of the relations everything proceeds well: flowers, appointments, gifts, but as soon as it comes to marriage, the partner sharply changes in respect of behavior. He tries not to see the companion, ignores her, and soon at all leaves her. And so there is every time, each relations come to an end with a conversation about a wedding.
Because of what there can be such problem?Women are zealously confident that the man needs to be pushed by force in the REGISTRY OFFICE, to force to be married, and, to make it nearly in two months after acquaintance. It is the most important mistake! You do not hurry "to push" the man under a wreath when it is necessary, he will ripen. Because women begin to force events, men run. The man should allow to get used psychologically to the fact that he is ready to be the husband and the father, and it is process not fast.
Not with each man it is necessary to make family. Women to be upset because of dozens of unsuccessful attempts to marry, and matter only that it is not their man! It happens! There are some signs that your present satellite is your man and that it will be shortly ready for a wedding:
He speaks everything that loves the woman. The loving man always tells all (to the friends, the relative, the acquaintance) only the best reviews about the woman. The most important that he speaks about her constantly. If he does it, so wants to tell are that his this woman, and it is dangerous to encroach on her.
The man speaks honestly. If he loves the partner, then will tell her everything directly and in eyes. If she was pleasant to him at once and he is ready to make with her family, then the woman learns about it in week, at most a month.
The man cares for the darling. He pays for her in cafe, helps to bear things, takes home. These, seemingly small trifles, but as they are important during creation of family. Your man will be a careful husband.
Psychology of the relations — piece difficult. To find the man, sometimes happens incredibly difficult. But, if the woman nevertheless found that person, then she should not hurry him, it is necessary to give time to him to take this important step to his lives.