certain each girl had to endure parting not voluntarily once. And much had to feel similar more than once in the life. It happens to all and even more often than could seem to you.
To a regret, the habit to put an end in the relations took roots today. And for some reason most of people consider that it is the natural end, any relations come to an end sooner or later. If in your relations there came such moment, do not mourn, and the main thing do not put an end men for yourself at all. The fact is that girls can make the same mistakes in the relations. Thanks to poll, it was established what you should not do to keep the strong and durable relations with the young man.
Here 7 most widespread mistakes, girls, read and remember.
- Listened, but did not hear.
So often it happens that the female is very fixated on own interests and feelings. You for certain now thought: hukh, it not about me. I am not an egoist. And the speech and not about egoism. Try to remember and some case when you just took offense at the fact that it did not make something for certain will recur to the memory as you wanted. It seemed to you that he does not love you, but whether the thought that something influenced him came to your mind and he made such act. Whether often you are interested in his experiences, its feelings?
- Ceased to appreciate trifles.
Certainly that the finest in the relations is an initial stage: flowers, appointments, kisses, romanticism continually. But soon the relations are stabilized, you become the close friend to the friend, learn bad and good about the partner and cease to pay attention that he called you, invited at cinema or just told that you beautiful. Such trifles begin to be considered self-evident, and for it nothing changed, it still does you small pleasant things, only earlier it caused a storm of emotions, and now at best thanks.
- She is not able to keep something a secret.
It would seem secrets usually girlfriends share. But there are such things which concern you and your partner. And for the man very important that it and remained only between you. If he tells you some intimate things — be so kind as do not fray about it on the parties. You remember, he trusted in you. Besides, all of us like to talk about that about this to the girlfriend. But you should not tell girlfriends about your private life, understand it not only concerns you, but also it equally. To it at least, it is unpleasant that someone to it absolutely the stranger knows about it very much.
- Is jealous — means loves.
It that so and here only with jealousy the main thing not to be overzealous. Men hate when to them something is forbidden or there suspect of something. To show to the man that he still very strongly is pleasant to you it is possible of course by means of jealousy, but do not turn him into the property.
- My girl — my mother.
The man has to feel the need. You have to show him that it your defender, it your wall and a support. To look after and not vice versa him, as the little boy. It already has mother. In one more there is no need. It is clear, that you want to care for it, but take the care so that he constantly remembered that you are in his care and support also in great need, he is a head of the family.
- It is too much attention. Her life turned into observation of my life.
It is necessary to love the man certainly. But, as a rule, that girl whom not so that and is easy to achieve is much more interesting to men. Be with it gentle, but not too careful. You should not be dissolved in it and to live only to them. Such young lady just is not necessary to the man.
- It seems the woman, and in practice — the man.
Here the problem is that girls sometimes undertake much including the man's duties. The girl has to be weak, unprotected and fragile. Such who should be warmed, embraced and kissed which needs to be helped for which it is necessary to care, and not vice versa. Why to the man one more man, only in a skirt? It is not necessary to be such independent and independent it can simply frighten off the young man, by the nature, they are created you to preserve.
Here as a matter of fact and all main problems of the modern relations. Acquire for yourself these 7 rules and be happy. Love to you!