Practically all parents face a problem of adaptation of the child in kindergarten. How to make process of accustoming to kindergarten less painful.
When parents of the kid receive the place in kindergarten – they very much enjoy it. However often they do not even assume that with the device in kindergarten in their life new quite difficult period begins. Difficulties of adaptation of the child in kindergarten are familiar to much. Let's try to understand how to make this period the least painful both for the child, and for parents.
There are several councils.
1. Moral preparation. It is necessary to both the child, and parents. Try to create a positive image of kindergarten at the child. Tell it about the forthcoming changes in his life, about a daily routine in kindergarten, about what waits for it and what he will be engaged in. You should not deceive the child or to embellish reality, tell him that mom will leave, but surely behind him will return.
2. Preliminary acquaintance. Before taking away and leaving the child in group, acquaint him with the territory of a garden and the playground at him, glance in group when there are no children, will get acquainted with the teacher. Try to create a positive image of kindergarten.
3. Positive image. Always mention kindergarten only from the good party in the talk, even when you discuss kindergarten among themselves, and the child just plays somewhere nearby.
4. Choice of time. It is better if during accustoming you drive the child in kindergarten of a sutr. All leave for work – dad, mom and the child.
5. Ritual. Create a certain morning ritual of a prosypaniye, pleasant for the child, and collecting before an exit. It is possible to establish such traditions as morning viewing the animated film or reading the short fairy tale, the choice and eating of candy or other delicacy, it is possible just to give a sutr chewing vitamins. It is possible to hang up a feeding trough in the yard and in the mornings on the way to a garden you feed birds if you bring the child to kindergarten by car – allow it to unblock locks, having pressed an alarm system charm, etc.
6. Favourite toy. Allow the child to take a favourite toy in kindergarten. It will help the child to create around itself the atmosphere which though will remind partly his house. And to the tutor will be about what to talk to your kid, he so is proud of the teddy bear or the shabby dinosaur!
7. Food. Food in kindergarten is very important and interesting to many children. If your child likes to eat, try even to get during adaptation on some meal. It will be for the child one of the good points connected with stay in kindergarten.
8. Dream. Do not try to leave quicker the child on a daytime sleep. For it it is quite heavy. If you made up the mind to this step – talk to the teacher about that to it allowed to sleep with the toy brought from the house.
9. Morning hysterics. Often children, even already got used to kindergarten, begin to cry if they meet a sutra in a locker room "roars". Try to remember to what time children who cry before calling group in the mornings come, and avoid meetings with them.
10. Focus attention on good points. Always remember kindergarten only from the good party: new interesting toys, tasty food, games and classes with the tutor, etc.
11. You will relax. Mom and dad should not calm down and relax, to worry too strongly. Often adaptation to kindergarten is given more difficultly if you are not ready to leave the child. If you made the decision to send the child to kindergarten – be firm. For adaptation think out to yourself important issues which you will carry out at that time until the child is in a garden.
12. You come to work. If you know that to you after you brought the child into kindergarten, it is necessary to run fast for work – it will be easier for you to leave it, and the child will feel that in a different way just it is impossible in any way.
13. Surely you say to the child that you will come. For you it clear by itself, and here the child can be afraid that he will not be taken away.
14. Be ready that after a disease or a break in visit the child will be capricious and cry during parting with you again.
And the most important – be attentive to the child and show a patience maximum. It is the new stage of life clear to you and absolutely unclear for the child. Everything that it is necessary for it - it is your love and understanding.