The family and family values play the main role in education and formation of the identity of the child. The love, mutual understanding, support and mutual respect first of all belong to family values. The task of parents is to create the atmosphere of love and heat around the kid and to put in a basis of his future life a maximum useful, light and kind.
Instruction
1. Talk to the child, be interested as at him there passed day, listen to his opinion. The kid has to feel member families and the person, important for you. Discuss with it everything read or seen, explain to the kid misunderstood and ask questions.
2. Establish the family traditions. It can be a festive Saturday dinner, a trip to relatives, a weekly campaign on a skating rink, reading or just a conversation before going to bed, the main thing is to observe tradition, it very much brings together family.
3. Let the kid will have household chores. Do not refuse if the child wants to help you. Joint work brings together people, and thus you pass on to the child the experience.
4. You spend time together more often. Leave all family on the nature, you go to circus or to theater on a performance. It is possible just to take a walk in the park, and then to have dinner in cafe. Allocate several evenings for joint family holiday: play board games, watch film or the animated film, just fool about, the main thing is joy and warm communication of close people.
5. Respect and protect each other. The child as a sponge absorbs information therefore try to avoid the conflicts and a lie. Honest discussion of problems and offenses is always better than half-words and irritation.
6. Be able to ask each other for forgiveness. Parents too living people can also make mistakes. If you in an irritation rush unfairly offended the child, surely apologize and embrace him. Children's heart is sympathetic, and reconciliation will come quickly. To recognize the mistake and to ask forgiveness is an act of the strong person, the child has to learn it and not save pain and aggression in himself.
7. Notice all achievements of each other and you praise even for small progress. Support the child in his interests and aspirations, enjoy together with him to udacha and calm at defeats. The child has to be sure that the family is that place where he will always be understood and helped. Fix in it understanding that the family is its reliable back, and it is very important to love and support dear people as in pleasures, and difficult periods of life.