About education of children many books which contain sometimes contradictory councils are created. Nevertheless, conforming to certain rules, at you for certain it will turn out to bring up the good person. But there are in education of children and taboos. If you want to grow up the mean and hysterical child, to make it as easy as shelling pears.
Instruction
1. You gave birth to the child, so, fulfilled the duty to society. Now at last it is possible to take care of the own life: to tighten the figure which deteriorated during pregnancy, to meet girlfriends, to have a rest. Have to bring up the child the nurse, kindergarten and school, it is their direct duty.
2. Perhaps, you always wanted to be engaged in the ballet or to be admitted to art school, but was died differently. Now you at last had a chance everything to correct. You can send the child to ballet school and a circle of the fine arts, and it is not important that the child wishes to become a football player. Now he yet small and understands nothing, but will be grateful to you when grows.
3. Never refuse anything to the child. You do not want to listen to hysterical cries native the child, rolling on a floor in shop and threshing fists on a floor. Children, whose parents indulged in everything to them, grow up the happiest.
4. In the modern world it is important to be able to swear and assert the rights. It is necessary to teach the child to it since childhood, then further it will be much simpler to it to live. Arranging dismantling with the husband, allow the child to participate in them. In family he has to acquire the correct behavior during the quarrels.
5. Criticize mental capacities of the child more often. Phrases "you that, fool?", "you in the right mind?" and "than you thought?" stimulate the child to knowledge of the world. The excessive praise, on the contrary, brakes the kid in development.
6. Children are helpless and unadapted beings who need to be sponsored constantly. Do not allow the child to leave to one the yard, do not release his hand upon transition of the carriageway, do not consider his opinion when choosing clothes for it – all the same it still small and understands nothing.
7. For certain numerous girlfriends, aunts and grandmothers in turns give to you various advice how to raise children. Strictly observe them, the good person cannot advise nonsense. And then you will manage to bring up the lazy, impudent and spoiled young man.