Dad taking active part in life and education of children – a dream of any woman. Unfortunately, many fathers keep from daily cares of the newborn baby and when he grows up, are surprised to the fact that it is difficult for them to find a common language with the child.
Instruction
1. From the first days of life of the child involve the husband in care for the baby. To take the kid, to rise to him at night, to change a diaper, to change clothes, descend on walk, to rock to sleep, do gymnastics and massage any dad is capable. Over the years the role of the father in life of the child amplifies. What the kid becomes more senior, that more he begins to listen to dad, adopts from it tendencies and interests. If the father hammers a nail, one-and-a-half-year-old the baby will grab the hammer too, dad sits down on a sofa with the book - the kid is attached by a row too. The child understands that competence of mom – to dress, feed, provide comfortable existence. And the father's prerogative – to conduct intellectual conversations, to make "significant", men's affairs. Therefore it is very important to dad to watch for by the own words and acts.
2. The father can be the excellent teacher: to show to the child as it is correct to collect the designer, to stick together plane model, to build a snowman. Dad – an example for imitation not only for the son, it also the man's sample for the daughter. How he behaves with her and mom, future family life of the girl, a type of the young man whom she will choose to herself in partners in life depends. Let dad give to the baby not only a toy and dolls, but also flowers, admires the daughter, kisses more often and embraces her. To be a positive example of the man, the father has to play with children games where he will be able not only to be courageous, sports, strong, but also will be kind, judicious, soft.
3. Even if dad works hard, he will be able to fill participation in life of children and several hours a week. It is important that the father devoted this time only to the child, without being distracted by phone calls, reading the newspaper and so forth. This communication has to be full. The child can be taken in campaigns, to ski and skate together, to do sports, to walk in the park, the forest, to swim in the pool, to go to the cinema, in shop to do shopping, etc. And dad will manage to check homework and to read before going to bed the book at all not worse than mom.