"I" and "we" the child knows word meaning in 3 years. "We" originally - it and parents, later – it and peers. The kid becomes inquisitive, tries to get acquainted with all around, can describe all the feelings and experiences words and gestures. Now he can play quite independently without continuous control of adults.
Many notice that even the child gives preference in the loving and close-knit family to one of parents. If at one of parents is not enough with day of time for communication with the child, give it in the evening before going to bed: read the fairy tale, ask what occurred today. If not to do it, children for drawing attention of adults become uneasy and whimsical. Parents have to have a desire and an opportunity to find half an hour for communication with the children.
The most widespread fears at the age of 3-5 years are fear of the closed space, loneliness and darkness. The main task for parents during this period is to prevent emergence of fears. It is worth spending more time with the child, in time to calm and explain that there is nothing to be afraid.
Sometimes the child begins to do everything as wants itself, upryamitya, does not listen to adults. The behavior he shows that he is not a little helpless kid, and the personality who has a certain opinion. Of course, parents do not need to prove the case shouts, and on the contrary, to tell enough (not always the truth) that can occur after any given action. The main thing not to go too far that "babayka" also was not added to fears of the child. You are able to afford to check "correctness" of the child in practice, for example, let will touch a hot teapot or the iron (reasonably of course). The child, having made sure that you tell the truth, will listen more willingly to your words and opinion.
Sometimes the kid who behaves well likes to play with mom and to listen to fairy tales, turns into the uncontrollable hooligan: beats mom, scatters toys and refuses flatly to obey. It is necessary to stop at once similar behavior because in several years will be already late.
If the child pronounces swear words, curses, think from where he took them. Perhaps, you need to monitor the speech. Explain what in your family so cannot be spoken.
Remember! The main moment in education is in that children did not notice that they are brought up.