Many parents have serious quarrels because of problems in education of the child. When parents quarrel, they can damage mentality of the child the behavior. There are other methods of the solution of family problems and questions, they it is a hundred times better, than shouts and quarrels.
Connect pleasant to useful
It is possible to agree with the soulmate, to organize a game of questions and answers in family. This game will help you to solve various problems. For example: what name to give to the child how to bring up the child whether the father has to prepare and so on. Also this game will help you to learn more about the half. But, perhaps, you will be surprised, having learned that your thoughts of education of the child absolutely differ. Then it will be possible to solve this problem at once. But if you do not reach compromise, then it is worth thinking of whether it will be comfortable to the child in such family.
It is necessary to look for solutions of problems of education
Of course, it is necessary to think of the arisen problems seriously. If methods of education of the child differ at parents, then it it is necessary to discuss and come to the general opinion. It is necessary to treat opinion of the soulmate with respect. Be patient if something is impossible. The fact that you will force events can damage to wellbeing of your family. For example, if mom speaks to do to the child one, and dad another, then the child will use current situation, and will choose what it is more comfortable to it to make. It can leave a negative mark in the course of education of the child.
What can be done and that it is impossible
In family there has to be a list of what categorically cannot be done and that is authorized. The child should be accustomed since early childhood to discipline. Let knows that it is impossible to scoff at animals, it is impossible to get into the car with the stranger, it is impossible to take without the permission others things. The similar order has to bring comfort in your family.
Distribute duties in family
In family there should not be it that mother brings up the child, and the father rolls on a sofa and has a rest. The father also has to take active part in education. Let mom prepare, removes, watches progress of the child at school. The father has to earn at the time money to provide family to all necessary. Together parents have to surround the child with care and caress.